How to Get Your Ex Back - The Simple Guide

Almost every adult has experienced a break up sometime during their life, and most of the time they just learn how to move on.

But what if you're not one of those people that likes to play the victim? You want your ex back and you're willing to do a little work to make it happen. That's a good and smart choice.

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Fact is, around 90% of all break ups can be reversed...if you know the steps you need to take to win back your ex. We'll talk about some of those in a second, but first I want to point out that you'll find some amazing resources down at the bottom of this article. These are the best sites I've found at laying out a step-by-step, easy to follow gameplan for getting back together. You owe it to yourself to take a look.

Okay, now on to some tips...

The first step in learning how to get back together with your ex is to determine why exactly the breakup occurred. Even though you can't go back into the past to change the reason the breakup occurred, you can learn from the mistake and try to grow from it.

The breakup may have occurred because of one specific event, or even from a behavior that your ex didn't want to deal with anymore. No matter what the reason for the breakup was, you need to find out the specifics so you can learn how to deal with the situation later on. When you follow the plan outlined at the sites below, you will get your ex back. But this time you want to keep the relationship together, right? So that's step one.

The next step is to make sure you don't make yourself seem needy. Even though almost everyone feels like they need to express to their ex that they cannot live without them, there is no point in telling them that. Instead stay strong, let your ex see that you are okay by yourself, and show everyone around you that you have self confidence and you are happy with yourself. Seeming needy or desperate will only push your ex further away, so make sure to maintain your confidence to get him to crawl right back to you.

This is one of the main points you'll learn when you visit the sites I tell you about below. In fact, you'll learn exactly what to say and how to say it. This one little technique alone can plant the idea in your ex's head that they made a mistake. It's very powerful!

Trying to make your ex jealous is one of the worst things you can do if you want to get back with your ex, since all it is going to do is show him that you have moved on and that he should do the same. Instead, you want him to think that he was the best thing in your life, and that nobody compares to what he had to offer you. By boosting his confidence without seeming needy, he will soon realize the two of you were great together despite the small fight or differences. Also, avoid getting upset if he is seeing someone else, because you won't be able to stop it no matter what you try.

Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems the two of you are having as long as you've followed the lessons outlined in the sites below first.

If you go in unprepared, or do what most people do, not only will a get-together with your ex not result in you two getting back together, it will probably wind up making things worse.

Getting back with your ex isn't rocket science, but you need to make sure you are behaving correctly to make him realize he is better off with you. Acting needy or childish will only push your ex further away, and that's the opposite of what you want to do, right.

Just follow the steps and the plan as outlined on the sites below and you'll be all set. Good luck!

How to Get Your Ex Back - The Simple Guide

Throughout this story I've been referring to a step-by-step gameplan anyone can follow to win back their ex. Here's where you can find it: watch this quick video (it's under 10 minutes) that explains the entire process. I bet this will turn out to be the smartest thing you do all day.

Next, this get ex back guide will help you understand what went wrong in your relationship to begin with. Good luck with everything. I hope this helps!

5 Proven Steps To Turn Your Friend Into Your Girlfriend

Be honest- are you one of those guys who secretly *wants* a girl who is your friend?

She's attractive, intelligent and you feel great whenever you're around her, but she only likes you "like a friend".

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Well if you have these feelings then you're not alone...

In fact, there are many guys who want to go from being friends with a female to something more physical. Perhaps even leading to a relationship!

However most women brush off any advances from their guy friends because they've grown comfortable with the friendship and want to jeopardize it.

The good news there is a step-by-step system you can follow that'll turn that female friend into your girlfriend. Now I have to warn you some of these techniques are a little intense. So if you 're not a brave person then I recommend you read no further...

But if you're tired of watching other dudes hang with the girls you secretly like, then I recommend you implement this five part system:

Step 1- Don't be a friend when you first meet a woman

The first step is to never become friends with a woman. Instead of acting like a woman's buddy when you first meet her, you should act like a guy she would want to date. In other words, there are certain things women observe that help them place guys into either the "friend" category or the "boyfriend" category.

I'll give you a hint- if you're always there for her and treat her with kindness and respect then you'll probably end up in the friend category.

In order to prevent this, you should act in an aggressive and sexual manner from the moment you meet a woman. In essence you will want to act in a way that a friend wouldn't.

Step 2- Remove yourself from her

Now if you're already in a situation where you're *just friends* then you're going to have to do something dramatic.

You have to stop hanging out with her!

This means you stop calling her, emailing her, and hanging out. Do everything you can remove yourself from the friendship.

While it's important to never be a jerk to her, you have to become a "really busy" guy who doesn't have much time to hang out. You can return her calls and messages, but make sure you do it over after a couple of days.

Bottom line is you should stop being the guy who is always there for her.

Step 3- Date other women

When you've stopped talking this girl, you have to date other women. In order for this system to work, you should make a decision about your friend. Either you can decide to stay friends or continue working towards making her your girlfriend.

By dating other women, you'll start to develop a more confident attitude about women. In essence, you'll start to see how she compares with other women.

Step 4- Contact her after a period of not talking

Once you've dated different women for a couple of months, you should make a decision about your female friend. You've can either choose to be friends or try to develop a relationship. If you want to make your friendship more physical, then you should contact her.

Now when you initially talk to her, make sure you speak to her like a potential dating partner, not like a friend. In other words, don't be all buddy-buddy with her. Instead act in a way that a guy she would want to date.

Step 5- Treat her like a woman

Now that you're talking to her again, start behaving in a way that'll make her attract to you. Ask her on dates, flirt with her and treat her like a woman. The more you can do to act like a MAN, the more she'll see you in a new light.

Turning a friend into a girlfriend is a hard thing to do. Women are naturally inclined to categorize men to the friend or boyfriend category. So it's up to you to make a dramatic turnaround and transform yourself into the kind of guy she'll want to date.

While these five steps are pretty extreme, it can be your best solution for transforming a casual friendship to relationship.

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6 Tips to Make Him Want You More Than Life Itself!

Many women go into a relationship with all the intentions of keeping things going great day after day. But somewhere along the way, it all starts to fall apart then we end up losing that person and wondering where we went wrong.

The key to keeping men is to make them want you. You need to give them a reason to want you more than life itself.

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Not sure how to do it? Here are some tips:

Be Strong and Independent

Most men love strong and independent women, even though they won't say so. While they want a woman who will love them and be there for them when they need it, they also don't want someone who is needy and will always be whining to them.

Enjoy life

Most men love a woman who can enjoy life no matter what's happening and will want to be with that type of positive spirit.

Let Him Be A Man

Many women think they have to take control of relationships and all relationship situations to make it go well. For many men, this is counter to who they are. Give him a chance to be the gentleman, pick the place you're going, pick up the tab, open bottles or do harder things for you and make sure to appreciate that he was able to help you.

Support Him

We all have tough times in life, it even happens to those strong men we know. Make sure you are able to be there when he needs you.

Don't Be Clingy

Many women think the way to keep a man is to fall down at his feet and give him anything he wants. Most men will enjoy that for a while, but they will tire of it eventually, think less of you for it and end up dumping you when something more interesting comes along. At the same time you will probably end up hating yourself.

Don't Get Lazy

Keep yourself looking good. When he sees other men looking at you he will be more intent on keeping you for himself.

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How to Improve Discipline in Your Public High School Classroom

How to Work With Security and Administration to Properly Discipline Students

I know that some days I feel more like a security guard than a teacher. It seems that in between class I'm pulling kids apart who are trying to beat each other up, and in class I'm dealing more with behavior than Beowulf. But there are some common sense strategies you can employ that I promise will get you a better reaction from Administration and Security, so that the students you send to the office stay there, and you can focus on your class.

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This is your mission, should you choose to accept it: Get to know every member of the Security Staff by name. Don't be sly about it. On your first teacher workday, or the first day of school, walk straight up to them, shake their hand, introduce yourself, and strike up a conversation. Ask them about their family, where they live. I don't care what you talk about, just make sure that after a couple days of this, they remember your name, and know which classroom is yours. The biggest reason I want you to get to know the Security Staff is because it will make you're job a lot easier. This is some of the best advice I can give, and that is why it is one of my first posts.

As the weeks go by, get in the habit of saying hi to them, and stopping for thirty seconds to ask them about their new girlfriend. Then, on days when you need them, stop by and give them a heads up that your hardest class is coming up, and ask them to drop by and help you get the kids in the door. Heck, invite them in your classroom at the beginning of class if you have a hard time getting the kids to be quiet (by the way, I will have another post soon about how to start class in the coming weeks). Just get in the habit of making friends with security, and while you're at it, you better get to know the Assistant Principal in charge of discipline too.

Your relationships with the people in charge of discipline will determine how effectively you are able to discipline your students in the classroom. If your school is like mine, many teachers, especially new teachers, don't feel like they have anywhere to send the bad kids. They send them out, and they seem to come right back ten minutes later. Teachers feel that the students aren't even being punished when they're sent to the office. Eventually, they become frustrated with the entire process, and wonder what exactly it is the security guards and Assistant Principal are even doing in the office. But that is why I have to ask - why wonder? I know exactly what is going on in the office, and because of this, I am a part of the discipline process. I am not just someone who expects others to deal with the students exactly how I expect them to, as if they can read my mind.

That is why you need to get to know these people - so that you know exactly what they are doing with the students you are sending them.

Let me tell you something. Even in my first year of teaching, I NEVER had problems disciplining students. EVER. I was never frustrated by the administration's response to a referral I wrote, and I never got kids sent back to my class that same day. In fact, when teachers tell me this is happening, I am puzzled, and I think I know why this is happening.

These are some basic rules you must follow when sending a kid to the office:

• MAKE SURE THEY GO! Good lord, half of the students coming back to your room ten minutes later didn't even go to the office. They just came back with a story that the Assistant Principal sent them back, and teachers believe them!
• Try to have a security guard escort them to the office. This makes sure they get there and stay there. I know this is not always possible, but that is why you make friends with the security staff. My security guard Dean knows me by name, and even knows that I go to Lake Tahoe some weekends to play craps. When I ask him to come to my classroom, he comes. When he hears it over the walkie-talkie, he comes quicker.
• Learn how to write referrals. Ask the Assistant Principal in charge of discipline what he or she is looking for in a referral. Depending on what you write, the student may be suspended for three days, or sent back to class while the referral ends up in the AP's wastepaper basket. Here's the thing about referrals. Be hard on them. Don't beat around the bush. If the student directed an F-bomb at you, write his exact words. Write: "Michael yelled 'Fuck You' directly at me, the instructor. I feel this to be a direct threat to my safety." I'm serious, if you feel threatened write it. You are not doing anyone a favor, especially not the student, by letting them get away with that kind of behavior. They need to know how serious it is. End the referral suggesting suspension, if that is what you feel the appropriate punishment should be.
• Follow Up. After school, go talk to your AP about that particular student. Tell them the whole story, all the stuff you couldn't fit on the referral. Make sure they understand how serious the situation is. Trust me, if you want to ensure a student is properly reprimanded, you need to do this stuff.

Like I said, I've never had a kid come back to class the same day I sent them out. When I send them out, I send them out right away if I can't get security, and I make sure they know I will be calling the AP's office in two minutes to make sure they got there. I send another student, or a senior assistant, with the referral afterwords. NEVER write the referral while the offending student is waiting, and NEVER send the actual referral with the student. Get them out of class right away, and patiently write the referral and send it down after them.

If you follow this advice, I promise you a better response from Administration and Security. We all know there are some kids who just can't be in class some days. It is a reality of our job and their lives. Knowing how to get these students out of your classroom and into the proper hands is an art that you need to master. If you do, it will make your job that much easier, and you will find yourself being more of a teacher in your classroom, and less of a security guard.

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Matt Amaral is the founder of teach4real.com, a website for real teachers in our toughest schools. Matt is a writer and high school English teacher from the San Francisco Bay Area. He received his undergraduate degree in English Literature from the University of California at Davis and an MFA in Creative Writing from National University. You can read his work in the current Winter 2010 issues of The Dirty Napkin, Diverse Voices Quarterly, Eclectic Flash, Bird's Eye ReView, TravelMag, Escape From America Magazine and InTravel Magazine.

Matt is a fellow of AmeriCorps TEAMS (Teacher Education for the Advancement of a Multicultural Society). He teaches both Puente and AVID classes, which are programs intended to help underrepresented students get to college. He has taught all high school grade levels and abilities, and is known to dive into fights between students, even though his wife doesn't want him to.

Get Your Girlfriend to Come Back After a Break Up

If you want to get your girlfriend to come back after a break up you have to seriously plot each move you make and everything you say to her. Most men just let their emotions take the lead when they are trying to get back the woman they love and lost. Although this may seem romantic and endearing, it's not going to win back her love. In fact, being overly emotional may actually spell the end of the relationship for good.

The first thing you absolutely must do to get your girlfriend to come back is apologize to her. How you handle this will play a big role in whether you'll be able to get her back or not. She may have been the one that ended the relationship but there's a very good chance it was because of something she felt was lacking in the relationship or something you did sometime during the relationship. You need to call her and apologize. Make it a very simple apology. Don't give her any long explanations for what you did or why you did it. No excuses allowed here. Be mature, make it simple and be brief. After you've done that, it's time to put the next step of your plan into action.

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You have to forget about her for several weeks if you truly want to get your girlfriend to come back to you. Every part of you is going to want to pick up the phone to call her, text her or you may feel inclined to write her an email. Don't do any of these things. You have to appear as though you are moving forward with your life without your ex girlfriend. The reason you want to take this approach is two fold. First it helps by showing her you respect her need for space. It also helps because it gives her the opportunity to start missing you. Break ups become much harder when the two people start missing each other. If you can resist all the temptations to contact her, she'll start missing you so much that she'll be the one who comes looking for you. Once this happens you are well on your way to getting her back.

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The things you do after your breakup will either set the stage for a reunion with your girlfriend or will ensure she's gone for good. Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the woman you love. If you still need and want her don't leave your future with her to chance, there are ways to win her back.

There are guaranteed ways to get her back regardless of why you two split. If you're tired of feeling heartbroken and if you're worried about her meeting a new guy, now is the time to get her back for good.

Top 5 Things to Look For in a Relationship

Everyone is looking for someone to share their life with. Someone to come home to at the end of the day, besides your dog or cat. This is a natural desire, so why is it so difficult? Modern life has made match-making more challenging, though ultimately more satisfying. Outside of arranged marriages, you can't count on your parents to pick your wife, so it's important to know what you are looking for in romantic relationships Here are some of the key things to strive for in relationships.

1 - Respect
Aretha had it right - R-E-S-P-E-C-T is vital to relationships. Respect means not belittling someone for mistakes or being harsh and critical when there are disagreements. Can you respect what your partner does for a living and the past choices she has made? What about ambitions and goals? Can you be supportive of each other? Without respect, deep and meaningful relationship is impossible.

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2 - Communication Skills
This is one of the most important things in healthy relationships. Both of you should feel free to express your opinions. If you are a private person, you should consider how trust and talking are connected for you. But if you can't talk to your girlfriend, how are you going to build a life together?

3 - Ability to Listen
Half of communication is listening to the other person. Listening entails more than just hearing what your partner says. It means understanding what she is saying and where she is coming from. Sometimes you might hear things you don't like, but if you don't listen fully, you can't communicate honestly.

4 - A Sense of Equality
The saying 'all's fair in love and war' doesn't just give license to dirty deeds and white lies. Compromise is a huge component of successful relationships. No one can 'make' you do anything you don't want to, but being in a relationship sometimes means doing things you don't love doing for the one you love.

5 - Chemistry/Compatibility
For romantic relationships to succeed there needs to be chemistry. Does this person excite you, make you feel happy, or make you laugh? Do you have similar interests or are you both willing to try new things? While it is not always healthy to spend every moment of everyday with your partner, you should basically enjoy her company. Building a relationship on friendship can make it that much more solid.

Relationships need tending - like a garden. There can be thorns and weeds and buggy issues, but with regular attention and care, your relationship can continue to grow and bloom into something beautiful

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Charles B. King is passionate about guitars, golf and women. And he loves all three! A personal life coach who lives in Phoenix, Arizona, he spends his free time blogging about relationships and dating advice from a man's perspective. If you want to learn his system for meeting, dating and how to get a girlfriend, check out his blog at http://www.getgirlfriendsystem.com.

Love, Lies, Betrayal, and Deceit - Why Do We Lie to Those We Love?

Why do husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, lie to each other?

Our romantic relationships are seldom what they seem. We all want a relationship that is built on openness, intimacy, and trust, but the truth is, our relationships do not always work that way. More often than not, our intimate relationships involve secrecy and deceit. In fact, if you want to look for deception and betrayal in your own life, the best place to start is close to home. Husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, often lie about their true feelings for each other, the feelings they have for others, and their level of commitment. Indeed, it is safe to say that people save their biggest and most serious lies for those they love.

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For better or worse, our romantic relationships are full of paradoxes which we try to overlook, downplay and ignore. For the most part, this strategy works well. Until the day comes when it doesn't, and with little warning or preparation we have to confront face-on the reality that our close relationships are not exactly what they appear to be.

Eventually, almost everyone will catch a spouse or partner in one of their lies. Inevitably, we have a difficult time coping with what we have learned and dealing with the fact that someone close has betrayed our trust. We do not expect our partners to mislead us, nor do we have insight into how and why deception occurs.

In fairness, it should also be mentioned that it is just as likely that a partner or spouse will catch you in one of your own attempts to deceive. And ironically, we are just as unprepared to deal with this kind of situation.

Ignoring the paradoxes inherent in our romantic relationships turns out to be a costly strategy and most people pay the price for this decision, unexpectedly, and all at once. It's not so much that coming to terms with the use of deception in romantic relationships will solve all of the problems you are going to encounter, but it will certainty help to reduce the stress, anxiety, and uncertainty that occur when deception eventually comes to light.

When it comes love and romance, most of the things we believe, turn out not to be true. Most people believe that all of their marital or relational problems can be solved through "communication." We also believe that deception is difficult to achieve, that misleading a partner requires a lot of effort and thought, and that romantic partners can tell when a lover is lying, and so on. None of these widely held beliefs, however, are supported by the evidence. Rather, our romantic relationships are held together by a delicate balance of both candor and deceit. And both are critical to making our intimate relationships work.

Romantic relationships entail two important features which allow deception to flourish: abundant opportunity, as well as the need to deceive. As we get close to another person, we intentionally and unintentionally provide them with a great deal of information about who we are, revealing ourselves through both our words and deeds. Creating this kind of intimacy or shared knowledge is critical, as it serves as the foundation for a lot of important rewards. Through our close relationships, we create gains with respect to our health, wealth, and emotional well-being.

Because relationships provide so many important rewards, it should come as no surprise that people are inclined to view their romantic partners in a positive light. We place a lot of trust in our romantic partners. We think we know them well. But while our trust surely provides us with a sense of security and comfort, it also lays the ground for deceit. For as we trust our partners more, we also become more confident but less accurate at determining when the truth is being told.

Every relevant study attests to the fact that lovers are terrible at telling when their partners are lying. In fact, detecting deception with anyone is difficult to do, but lovers manage to take this general failure to a spectacular low. Again, as we become more confident that we can tell when a lover is lying, the exact opposite turns out to be true. This "truth-bias" or "blind faith" provides the perfect opportunity for romantic partners to engage in deception. After all, who makes a better victim than someone who is eager and willing to trust everything you have to say?

Not only do close relationships create a wonderful opportunity for deception to occur, they also create the need. While romantic relationships offer many rewards, they also tend to be overly constrictive. Most everyone has felt the constraints of a close relationship from time to time; quite simply you are no longer free to do what you want, when you want, and with whom you want. So intimacy provides tremendous rewards, but at an enormous cost - the loss of your freedom and autonomy.

Lying to a romantic partner helps us deal with the constraints that our intimate relationships impose. Quite frankly, deceiving a romantic partner turns out to be the most efficient and effective way of maintaining the rewards we get from our romantic relationships while pursuing extra-relational goals and activities behind a partner's back.

How do we decide when to lie and when to tell the truth? Well, most of the time we do not intentionally think about misleading our partners. Rather such decisions are governed by our emotions and just seem to happen when the right situation presents itself. Often a sense of excitement, opportunity, and exhilaration can lead us down paths we had no intention of traveling. A sense of fear, loss, and trepidation, on the other hand, prompt us to cover-up what we've done and be more conservative in the short-term. Luckily our emotions are very good at reading situations and keeping our deceptive behavior within limits. Our emotions prompt us to regain some of our freedoms while also allowing us to maintain the benefits we get from our intimate relationships.

When you take a step back and put it altogether, the picture that emerges tends to be rather ironic. Because our romantic relationships are so rewarding yet constrictive, we are simultaneously more truthful and more deceptive with those we love. Additionally, we place the most trust in the person who is most likely to deceive us, just as we are most likely to deceive the person who loves and trusts us the most. These are just a few of the paradoxes that emerge when taking a close look at the use of deception in our romantic relationships. Most of what is uncovered runs counter to our most cherished beliefs about love and romance; that is, the idea that complete openness and intimacy are a central and defining feature of being in love.

Initially most people avoid looking for deception by a loved one. But as you begin to examine your own behavior more closely it becomes harder to dismiss the degree to which lies, betrayal, secrecy and deceit are ever present in our close relationships. Hopefully, you will take on a greater appreciation for the complexities of your relationships as well as a richer understanding of what it means to be in love. Regardless of the final outcome, taking a close look at deception in your life will change the way you view yourself and others.

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How to Get Your Girlfriend Back - Get Her Back the Right Way

Your heart is probably bleeding right now wondering how to get your girlfriend back to give your relationship just one more chance. We have all been there before and the pain can be devastating. In order to learn how to get your girlfriend back you must read this article carefully and avoid making costly mistake that may push her out of your life forever.

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No matter how hopeless you think it is right now to get your girlfriend back I am here to tell you that almost all relationships can be saved. That's right, think about all the couples that reunite, some against the greatest odds, your relationship is no different, is it?

First things first, you must harden up for the time being and avoid any cry, pleading and begging for your girlfriend to take you back. Sometimes these methods can work but chances that they may push your girlfriend away forever. Get your emotions in control, these methods will not fix your relationship.

While I can't tell you for absolute certainty that you will get your ex girlfriend back I will tell you that break ups are rarely finally. Sometimes break ups are a harsh wake up call that your relationship must change immediately, like a shot to the heart.

Don't run after your girlfriend begging for just one more chance or promising that things will change. Give your girlfriend credit, she has her reasons for leaving and you must respect them before you can turn things around.

Accept the break up and tell your ex you understand that your relationship is over, well, for the time being. You need to understand what went wrong and why, the true nature of the break up must be determine so give yourself some time work out why.

It's imperative that you give your girlfriend some time and space, don't make the same mistake as other guys before you by constantly calling, messaging, emailing your ex girlfriend. No one likes a desperate ex and your girlfriend is no different.

Give her time, let her gather her thoughts and let emotions settle, while you can't instantly win back your girlfriend you can most definitely reaffirm her decision to leave. Don't make her decision to leave you an easy one by becoming "one of those ex's."

If everything you have tried hasn't worked then it's time to take action and follow this advice carefully and learn how to get your girlfriend back the right way. Winning back a girlfriend is process, when followed correctly by using your head first and your heart second you will find it simple and straightforward to get your girlfriend back.

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How to Win an Ex Girlfriend Back - Killer Advice Revealed!

If you have just recently broken up, then I understand your probably going through a very difficult time emotionally. The good news is, there are many ways how to win an ex girlfriend back. The only problem is, there are also many ways how you can really hurt your chances. Here's what I mean:

How NOT To Win An Ex Girlfriend Back...

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• Relentlessly apologizing for EVERYTHING over and over again.
• Trying to convince her you will change for good this time around.
• Telling her that she NEEDS you and without you, she will not be happy.
• Constantly calling or text messaging her too soon after the breakup.
• ...And the WORST one, BEGGING for forgiveness. (This NEVER works)

The reason why these things simply do not work is because it makes you look WEAK and DESPERATE! My guess is, you have made some (or all) of these mistakes. Don't worry, you can still EASILY win your ex back. Just make sure not to go into Panic Mode.  That will only make the situation worse than it already is.

Another huge mistake many people make, is they assume "time will heal" or overtime things will "work themselves out". The truth is, these are MYTHS. By waiting, your only giving your ex more time to move on from you, and find someone new. It's not a fun feeling to think about, but that's the reality of a breakup.

How do you stop making mistakes and start making progress with your ex?

HAVE A PLAN! This is the key to winning an ex girlfriend back. Having a plan will move you forward and put an end to making mistakes.

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How to Get Her Back to You - Get Your Girlfriend Back Now!

A break up is almost never a good thing. It doesn't feel good and what is worse, if you want to get your girlfriend back, it almost seems like it is impossible. You try to reach out to her and she rejects your attention. She acts as though she does not want to hear from you. Yet, this is still not an impossible task to get her back. Many times, a woman will act this way and within a short time, still get back with her ex.

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Here are a couple of tips to help you out:

1. You have to give the situation some space. It's not just about giving her space, you have to give yourself space as well. In the moment, situations can make your emotions out of whack and you can easily say the wrong thing that will push her away forever.

2. You have to use HER psychology. See, with a woman, it's a lot different the things that you have to do and say to get her to come back. To really understand this, you have to know how to use her own female psychology to attract her back. It's not nearly as hard as it may sound.

3. You have to use a plan to get her to come back to YOU. Without a plan, you are just kind of wishing that she will come back to you, and we all know that wishes don't always come true. You have to use a plan or a method that will attract her back to you. Otherwise, it probably will NOT happen.

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6 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

Getting to know the person you're dating is vitally important. This article will provide you with some questions to ask your girlfriend, in order to get to know her better. You will never get to know your girlfriend, if you don't ask her questions. As you ask her questions, remember that these questions should be focused on her.

Don't ask questions like, what is your favorite feature about me? Or, don't you think my new pants are cool? Or, want to hear about my problems? These questions focus on you. They're very narcissistic and will very quickly lead to your girlfriend becoming bored with your tedious conversation about yourself.

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Instead, here are some questions to ask your girlfriend that will help you to get to know her better. The plain truth is that people like to talk about themselves. Ironically, the more you can get her to talk about herself, the more she'll find you to be an interesting conversationalist.

Evaluate the questions below, before you ask them. Some of them are more appropriate for early on in a relationship. Others are more appropriate as your relationship progresses.

And now to the questions...

1. Are you happy with your life right now?

This question will tell you a lot about where your girlfriend is at in her life. It might also give you some insight into how she feels about your relationship.

2. When are you most happy with us?

This question forces her to think of positives about the relationship, especially if you are going through a rocky time. As you ask the question, make sure that you have thought of an answer yourself, because she is sure to turn the question back on you.

Her answer to this question will also give you some ideas about what you can focus on that will make the relationship even stronger.

3. What are you most passionate about?

This is a great question for any time in a relationship, as our passions can change. You might find that your passions are so divergent that you can't find common ground. On the other hand, you may find that you are passionate about the same things. If you find this to be the case, you could potentially find yourself in a very satisfying relationship.

4. What makes you most happy in your life?

If you are serious about a continued relationship with your girlfriend, pay close attention to the answer to this question. Find out what makes her happiest and then help her experience those things. This is sound advice for any kind of relationship.

5. What are your 3 favorite activities?

If you want specifics about the activities she most likes to participate in, this is a fantastic question. Again, pay attention. When you get a chance, write down her answer to the question in some place where you'll be able to reference it in the future. Work these activities into your plans often. Be sure to look for variations as well.

6. How can I help?

If you notice your girlfriend is troubled by something, ask this question. Hopefully, this question will elicit an answer will allow you to help her. If she responds by saying "Nothing." then you should follow up with "Is there anything you would like to talk about?"

These questions are just questions to get your mind rolling. There are literally thousands of worthwhile questions to ask your girlfriend. Lots of questions will come naturally in the course of a conversation. Go with the flow. These questions to ask your girlfriend will help you strengthen your relationship.

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Why Do Men Lie to Their Girlfriends?

Do you lie to your partner? Have you ever wonder why do men lie to their girlfriends? Do the problems lie with the women or are the men just simply a good liar? Sometimes lying does not mean that the guy does not love the girlfriend anymore. Here are some of the common reasons that could explain why do men lie to their girlfriends.

I think most of the women loved to compare and ask the guy about the previous girlfriends. Well, probably this is just another woman's thing. Most of the men would definitely say that you are better than the previous girlfriends. On the other hand, how would you feel when your boyfriend tell you that her previous girlfriend was so much better than you? I am sure you would immediately react and think in this way why he chose to have you instead of the ex girlfriend, right? A heated argument may just start because of this. You probably will get a lie from him. Anyway, I am sure you are definitely better because you are unique in your own ways.

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Another thing that men lie to their girlfriends is when the girlfriend tell the boyfriend to do something, he lied to her saying that he had done it. I think 9 out of 10 men do that. It can be any things like household bills, eating medicines, refunds etc. Sometimes, men just do the opposite especially when the women are nagging the same old thing repeatedly.

You probably will hear him saying that you look nice on every dress even you have chosen to try on an ugly dress. Men will lie on this because they are so afraid that you will get angry. It is especially difficult for a man who does not like shopping at all.

Men may try to be a "superman" in everything. They tend to be very egoistic. Even if he has no clue as to the things that he is doing now such as things like repairing a sink etc. He may just try to prove to you that he can.

Sometimes, he may also lie to you that he is working overtime but he is actually watching his favorite football match with his friends. Did you hate him to watch football matches? That could be the answer.

Is your man a habitual liar? If he is, he may just be lying all the time. Habitual liar have the thinking that lying is not a big issue. However, behaving in this way may create chaos in the relationship and may not do well for the relationship.

This is the most hateful fact when men lie to their girlfriends and that is cheating behind their back. Of course, most of the women are not able to react calmly when they knew their man was cheating. They try to cover up with various excuses for not being able to accompany the girlfriend or going home late but they are actually dating another woman. You found mysterious gifts that were not given by you and he tried to cook up stories saying that it was a gift from his best pal or his mother. What should you do when you realize your boyfriend is cheating on you?

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Why is My Ex Ignoring Me?

We broke up a month ago for no bad reason after going out for three years. I simply needed some time to myself and some space. We spoke about it and agreed it was for the best. I've had time to think about things and I'd like to see if we can make this work so I tried calling about a week ago but my calls and messages have been ignored. It hurts that I am being ignored. What can I do? It's not as if I have done anything wrong."

Human nature is a strange thing to analyze and when it comes to affairs of the heart our behavior seems to be more erratic than ever. But in truth we all act in a similar manner.

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The particular break up described here was simply because one partner (the guy) was having second thoughts and needed some time and some space to be sure of his feelings.

The girlfriend was so traumatized by this sudden "amicable" break up that the shutters went up in an effort to avoid a repeat of the intense pain - even though in reality she wanted to get back with him. It was classic human response of "fight or flight" and she chose flight.

The physical pain of a break up can be so intense that it almost defies description. People land up not being able to function properly from lack of sleep, a total lack of appetite and complete confusion as to why their world has been turned upside down. It doesn't matter what the reason for the break up. It can be an affair (considered the worst betrayal), an addiction (porn?), a lack of communication (taking things for granted) or a thousand other things.

The pain and reaction is the same in many cases. Usually the wronged partner's response is to flee, to put up shutters and "run" as far as possible. They will wish the relationship never happened. Memories will be destroyed, places visited together and mutual friends all become too much to bear. They try everything but there really is no escape from these painful memories. How then does one get such a person to give the ex a second chance?

I have just read a question in Yahoo! Answers where a woman has married a man in order to spite her ex because he did not want to commit to marriage. She was asking what she should do because her ex is her true love. How sad is that sort of extreme flight?

If you want to get your ex to stop ignoring you, whether they are "right" or "wrong" is immaterial. What you need to do is understand and empathise with what they are going through.

You need to start again.

Embrace your contribution to whatever went wrong. Even the innocent party in an affair needs to understand that they were part of the reason for the affair, however small that part might be. Then and only then can you hope to retrieve what was probably a very good relationship in the first place.

Don't ask "why is my ex ignoring me?" ask rather "What must I do to get my ex to stop ignoring me?" If you can answer this question you will have a much better chance at opening up the lines of communications and a second chance at happiness.

Why is My Ex Ignoring Me?

If your ex is ignoring you it is probably because, like you, there are a lot of different emotions being felt. It might be too early to face up to things - sometimes ignoring something buys time or makes the pain go away. The thought of trusting you again only to be let down is too unbearable to contemplate at this point.

Stepping back and giving your ex some space is sometimes hard to do but if you can the results will amaze you. A change in thinking will give you a fresh start and a better chance of getting a response from your ex. That's all you're asking for right now - a chance to talk!